DATE #5 

DATE LEGEND

PICK YOUR DATE! 

ROOFTOP ADVENTURE

Climb to the top of a house or building, or drive to the top floor of a parking garage and have your favorite drinks and snacks. Make sure you aren’t breaking any laws and it’s a safe place to be. Send a picture of your secret spot to the Facebook group!

Cost: $10-20
Time of day: 
Evening
How long will it take: 
1-2 hours 

WEEK OF AFFIRMATIONS

Create a list of 7 positive affirmations your partner can use throughout the week, keeping in mind the things that they have shared with you that are insecurities, things they want to improve on themselves, or things you want to improve on together. Then, write them each on a separate note card and put them in envelopes labeled for each day of the week.

Cost: Free
Time of day: 
Any
How long will it take:
1-2 hours

DRIVE IN MOVIE

Drive-ins are a nostalgic activity that takes you back to those childhood memories. One of the best parts about finding a drive-in theater is the fact that you can bring your own food and snacks. Go to a drive-in and take some of your favorite snacks with you. Share your experience and picture of your spot in the Facebook group!

Cost: $35-50
Time of day: 
Evening
How long will it take:
2-3 hours

MINI GOLF

Find a nearby mini golf course and go play together, or grab another couple and make it a double date! If you want to keep the date going, find a new spot to grab a meal together after.

Cost: $20
Time of day: 
Any
How long will it take:
1-2 hours

BONUS POINTS ITEMS

Record your bonus tasks in the back of your Memory Journal. You cannot complete the same task more than once.

  • Next time you see your partner or right now if you are together, kiss for 10 seconds
  • Stop and tell your partner 1 thing you appreciate about them.
  • Stop and thank your partner for 1 thing
  • Stop and pray together, prayer for your partner
  • Take a walk of 15 minutes or more
  • Write a short but really good love note and hide it somewhere your partner will eventually find it
  • Next time it rains go kiss in the rain for 10 seconds – no umbrellas
  • Give your partner a foot massage 5 min minimum
  • Answer this question: if your partner were a dessert what would they be?
  • Stop and think for one minute about any way you may have hurt, disrespected, not loved your partner this week. Then apologize and ask forgiveness.
  • Stop and share one thing you read in the bible or heard in a message that caught your attention and why?
  • Answer this question: if you could meet one person from the bible (other that Jesus) who would you pick and why?
  • Finish the statement: right now, the one thing I would appreciate you praying about for me is…
  • Tonight, turn all electronics off, and give your undivided attention to each other and talk about one or two steps you can take to grow as a couple.
  • Go for a walk just enjoying each other’s company. Consider spending the first 10 minutes in silence.